The Snowball of Growth

Who You’re Taking This From

Before anything else, I want you to know exactly who’s talking to you, and why. So I’ll go back to the start.

Gabriel at his desk, in the room the training is recorded in.

This is the room. It is where every lesson in the training gets recorded.

How I ended up painting bridges

I got into DJing and electronic music after finishing my studies in Romania. That took me to Milan, where I spent two years learning audio engineering. Then I moved to London, hoping to find work in a music studio.

I couldn't, because I had no experience and no connections. So I ended up painting bridges on the London Underground, midnight to four in the morning.

Four hours of work a night sounds easy on paper. It wasn't. The environment was toxic and the night shifts wrecked my sleep, so I was permanently exhausted, stuck in long commutes and barely paying my bills.

I remember asking myself whether I was going to waste my whole life painting bridges instead of building the thing I actually wanted. So I got out.

The good years, then 2020

I found my way into real DJ work, and for the next few years I did what I loved, playing music around the world at big clubs and festivals.

Then 2020. My gigs stopped completely, overnight. Nothing coming in, and no government support for someone in my position. One event took away everything I'd built in a matter of weeks.

That's the moment that changed how I think, permanently.

The gigs came back eventually and I went back to that life, but two questions never left me.

How long can I actually keep doing this?

If I have to stop again, for whatever reason, what do I actually have?

The second one is the one I couldn't answer, and it bothered me more than the first.

What I found when I looked

I went looking, and what I found online was mostly noise. Everyone was selling something and nobody was telling the truth about how any of it worked. So I started figuring it out myself.

What I worked out was this. The whole problem was that I'd never written any of it down. Not once, not anywhere.

I thought the only thing I knew how to do was play music, so when that stopped it felt like I had nothing left. That turned out to be completely wrong. I'd spent years solving problems, learning things the hard way, and being the person people came to for certain stuff, and I'd never once written any of it down or counted it as anything.

It was sitting there the whole time, invisible to me, because it was mine and it felt ordinary.

When I finally put it all in one place and looked at it together, I had a starting point. Not a business plan. Just a real place to take a first step from.

How slow it actually was

I was impatient at first. I expected massive results right away, and I completely ignored what was possible over a longer stretch of time.

What actually worked was a small amount of consistent work, day after day, rather than working hard once in a while and then burning out.

I also learned to notice the small wins along the way. Those were the proof the thing was working, long before anything big showed up. If I'd waited for the big result to feel like it was working, I'd have quit long before I got there.

And the turning point wasn't a big idea. It was small. I added a little structure to my days, and that structure gave me the clarity to see a path instead of feeling buried by all of it. You cannot build anything new while your mind is in chaos, so clarity has to come first.

Why it's a snowball

Once I had that clarity, I noticed the whole thing wasn't a straight line toward some finish line. It was a cycle.

Picture packing a snowball. Small at first, and it grows with every turn as you roll it. Push it to the edge of a hill and at some point you stop doing the heavy lifting, because it rolls on its own now, gathering speed and size.

That's the model, and it's the reason nothing here asks you to move fast or to do something enormous on day one.

You don't need to be the expert

The thought that stopped me for a long time was a version of one I hear a lot: who am I to do this, when I'm not an expert at anything?

That's a fair thought and I'm not going to argue anyone out of it with a pep talk. So let me put it a different way.

You don't need to be the world's leading authority on anything to help somebody. You need to be a few steps ahead of them, with real proof you've walked part of the path they're standing at the start of. Most of us have more of that proof sitting in our lives already than we realise.

What I won't do

No live calls, ever. Support inside the Lab is written, in a community, so you can ask the question at the moment you actually have it rather than showing your face in front of strangers on a call. Once it's answered it stays answered for the next person.

No countdown that resets when you reload the page, and no pretending places are running out. That might squeeze out a few extra sales. It's also the exact thing all of us have learned to distrust online.

No promises about results. Everything here describes what the thing does rather than what you'll get out of it, and you can read the guarantee and the cancellation terms before you pay a cent.

And nothing asks you to become an influencer, to post every day, or to be somebody you are not on camera.

What's here now

A free training that walks you through building the two documents I should have built years earlier, and the Digital Leverage Lab, which is the course, the platform and the written community together, for turning those documents into a system. There’s a YouTube channel as well, where most of the thinking gets worked out in public. The homepage lays out what each one is.

You can reach me at gabriel@thesnowballofgrowth.com.

Start Where I Should Have

The free training is the part I did last and should have done first. It costs nothing and takes about an hour and three quarters.

You'll be asked for a first name and an email, and nothing else.